I'm not sure about you, but when I provide birth support to my clients, I inherently know that I need to take care of myself first so that I can be the best for them, but I often forget! Thank you to Natalie for sharing this wonderful article with tips to help us all stay nourished and prepared for long births!
- Tanya Hill, Doula Canada administrator
Real Food for Labour Doulas
It is my belief that food should be real ... ALL the time. This connects us to what we eat, connects us to the earth, our fellow humans who have grown/raised/collected the food, the plants and animals that make up our environments and so much more. It helps us be conscious and it nourishes our bodies and our souls.
So when it comes to attending birth, of course I feel that rule should take priority. Try to avoid packaged, processed foods and drinks and just stick to real food ... things that have been grown, raised, collected and likely don't come in extensive packaging with a long ingredient list!
It seems simple, but it really is a very well rounded approach that covers many aspects of well-being. To start, it is important to remember that our diets need to be comprised of Macro-nutrients ... Fats, Proteins, and Carbohydrates (not the more commonly thought of 4 food groups). Before heading out to a birth, it's a good idea to be mindful that you attain all three of these in your meal.
Protein: Helps build/repair/sustain most tissues that make up our bodies. Having adequate protein in your meals will help you feel full, satisfied and maintain stable energy levels throughout the hours that you are at a birth. A serving the size of your palm is plenty for most people.
Fats: Fat is the densest form of energy. The energy from good fats will keep you going both physically and mentally without the typical 'crash' associated with sugar induced energy. Fat is also nutrient dense and wonderful for your body in many other ways. Examples of good fats include: Eggs, coconut oil, avocados, fish, olive oil, grass-fed meats.
Carbohydrates: I think everyone is aware that fruits and vegetables do wonders for your body and this is what you should grab when you are filling the carb portion of your meal. They will provide numerous vitamins, nutrients, energy and hydration to pull you through the long hours attending a birth.
When you are on call, have an idea of a few different meals ideas (depending on the time of day you are called, you may have different preferences) and have the ingredients on hand. That way you aren't leaving with an empty tank or grabbing something unhealthy just because you're in a rush and nothing else is available. It is also important to remember that in the same ways that good foods build you up, poor food choices will also bring you down, make you feel sluggish, fatigued and depleted.
Once you have arrived at a birth, food and food choices are likely the last thing that is going to be on your mind ... so, again, having a bag of snacks prepared ahead of time whenever you are on call can really go a long way. Millions of dollars of marketing campaigns will lead you to believe that snacks are only available to humans in package form ... However, if you stick to the rule of real food, you again will experience higher energy, better health and more mental clarity for the extended hours throughout your birth. I'll throw out a few ideas here, but really any real food will do when it comes to a quick snack.
1. Top of the list is the wonderful, glorious avocado! Avocados are the holy grail of snacks, packed with healthy fat and nutrients. You can easily slip a pairing knife, a spoon and an avocado in your bag and you instantly have a nutritious and delicious snack on the go. (Side note: avocados are shaped like a uterus and take nine months of growth from conception to ripening, so they really do seem like a fitting snack at a birth, right!? Plus, they are thought to aid the uterus in contracting and regaining shape postpartum so you can take an extra for your client to enjoy post birth).
2. Berries! Berries are wonderful, pop in your mouth snacks that are great when you need something fast. They are filled with vitamins, anti-oxidants and energy boosters. Berries are also great because they have a lower glycemic index than most other fruits, which allows your blood sugar to remain stable. Fresh berries are great, but if you are in a position where you want something more tidy, Goji berries usually come dried and really pack a huge punch nutrition and energy wise.
3. Homemade Chocolate. So easy, so delicious! Four ingredients: 1/2 cup raw cacao powder, 1/2 cup virgin coconut oil, 1/4 cup raw honey, 1 cup crushed, raw almonds (optional). In a saucepan melt coconut oil on low heat. Stir in cacao powder. Take off burner and stir in honey, then almonds. Pour into parchment lined 8x8 dish and cool in fridge/freezer. Cut into bars and store in fridge/freezer. This is a powerhouse of energy and loaded with nutrients. In my experience you should likely take extra because Mom's in labour love this snack and if there are midwives there they'll want some too :)
4. Eggs!!! Eggs are the most completely perfect food, full of protein, healthy fats and numerous vitamins. Note: Farm-raised, free-range eggs are superior nutritionally as well as ethically.
5. Any and all real fruits and vegetables. Whole fruits like apples, oranges, bananas, or cut up melons, and veggies such as peppers, carrots, celery, and cucumbers are the simplest form of snacks but they do wonders for your body. Along with a potent array of vitamins, fruits and veggies are filled with water and really help to hydrate your body (especially important in a hospital setting). Having veggies already cut up in your fridge ready to get tossed in your birth bag is a great idea when you're on call (make sure to eat them every couple of days and cut up new ones if you don't get called so they remain fresh). Cucumbers in particular are extremely hydrating and contain a nearly complete make-up of vitamins, including B vitamins which are fantastic for boosting energy. Taking a small container of full fat yogurt or homemade hummus is always a nice add (depending on the intensity of the birth you are attending you may or may not have time for dipping).
Hydration: Getting enough water to drink is something we are trained to help our clients with, but we need to remember for ourselves as well. It is crucial to stay hydrated in order for us to function at our best. Staying hydrated though out the birth will not only keep our energy levels up and allow us to support our clients better, it will also help carry us back into our everyday lives with an easier transition, shortening our 'recovery' time needed after a long birth.
Labour Aid is something you may have heard of as a great option for Mom's in labour, but it's great for Doula's in labour too :) Here's an example recipe ... 4 cups water or coconut water, 1/3 cup lemon juice, 1/3 cup raw honey, liquid calcium/magnesium (as per dosage instructions on bottle), 1/4 tsp sea salt (I like Himalayan Pink salt).
Coffee/Energy Drinks. The common denominator in most of these type of drinks is caffeine, which directly affects/stimulates your central nervous system, which links to your 'fight or flight' response. That jolt to your system is going to affect everyone a little differently, but for most people your body becomes a little (or a lot) more jittery, restless, anxious, instead of more calm, peaceful, relaxing, which is the energy we are trying to pass on to our clients. I personally am a coffee lover, I drink coffee most days, but not at births. Additionally, the sugar content in most of those drinks is atrocious and will likely lead to a pretty heavy crash that outweighs any of the initial energy benefits.
Following a birth, especially a long or hard birth, it is important to take time to gently reset your body. This is the time to eat foods that not only nourish your body, but are comfort foods that nourish your soul. Many people find soup to be one of those foods, but you will know what is right for you. I personally connect strongly with the Ayurvedic principals towards food during this time. “What you put in your body has a direct effect not only on your body but also on your mind and soul – on how you lead your life. If your food is full of Prana, life force, it will give you the ability to live your life to your fullest potential. Food that is pure, full of Prana and prepared with love, meditation and good healing vibrations gives you much more than just the feeling of satisfaction to the taste buds. It nourishes your body, mind, senses and soul while increasing physical energy, positive thinking, creativity, longevity and heightened awareness of like in all its beauty. It brings you closer to the Divine state.” - Darshana Thacker, Ayurvedic Chef.
About your Author:
Natalie is a certified HALO birth doula and in training to be a holistic nutritionist servicing the Prince Edward County, Belleville/Quinte, Trenton and Kingston area. You can find her business – Positive Birth Doula – on Facebook at: www.facebook.com/PositiveBirthDoula
We live in an information age. At the tip of your fingertips is all of the world’s information. How crazy is that?! Want to know how to fix your car engine? Google! Curious about what happened in 1215 B.C? Let’s type it in! Looking for a delicious gluten, dairy, sugar, GMO, organic recipe? Yup, you’ll find it - and what time is dinner?!
To the newly expecting parent (congrats!) the plethora of online articles, blogs, Q & A’s and parenting forums can be slightly intimidating and like, whoa, overwhelming. A simple online search about “strollers” can leave you confused for weeks… no, wait, make that months!
FACT: it took my husband and I five months to decide on our stroller. It took us three days to buy our first home!
Finding a clear, non-confuted explanation about what you could expect in your upcoming labour experience (and the multiple years of parenting!) can be, excuse my parlez français, fucking impossible.
So here are 3 damn good reasons to take a prenatal course in your community:
Reason #1: Down to the Nitty-Gritty
At the end of the day there are two things most expecting women want answered:
(A) How will I know when I’m in labour?
(B) How the hell am I going to get through it?
Prenatal instructors answer this. Easily. Without agenda or obtusity.
Imagine a prenatal world where you get an answer like this: “Here is a cervix. This is how it works. This is what you and your baby need to get this shit done. Congratulations and best wishes!”
Prenatal courses and strong instructors cut through the crap and give you facts. Evidence. Amazing!
Reason #2: The Good Stuff
People who teach private prenatal courses tend to attack their profession with an amorous rage! We are birth junkies. Labour geeks. And as a result, research addicts.
When we teach a course to the newly expecting we want to make sure that our programs are solid and that our students are…. oh man…imagine this… HAPPY!
By researching and sharing THE BEST information available, online and otherwise, your prenatal instructor hopes that the small time they have spent with you has a positive affect on your labour and parenting experience. Say what?!
Of course there are no guarantees, but our intentions are altruistic. Pinky swear!
Reason #3: Wait for it.... You’re not the Only One
Expecting a baby can feel isolating. Online resources write of the amazing journey and beauty one should feel towards growing a baby. Um, duh.
Yet the simultaneous images of something the size of an avocado (wait for the pumpkin!) growing inside of you can sometimes be enough to open the Hoover Dam of hormonal tears. “It has to come out somehow!” Pass the Kleenex. And damn you sappy Canadian Tire commercials!
Attending a prenatal class and sitting with others who are also feeling the highs and lows of becoming parents can be incredibly therapeutic and wonderfully relieving.
If you want to do yourself a HUGE favour for your upcoming labour and parenting experience then research prenatal course options available in your community. Find one that fits your schedule, birth philosophy, and personality. Then SIGN UP!
Let the birth junkies remove information overload and create colloquial clarity for your experiences ahead!
For more information about becoming a Labour Doula or Childbirth Education... click HERE.
About the author:
Shaunacy is a full-time Labour Doula in the Peterborough, ON, Canada.
She strongly feels that through evidenced based approaches to learning all families can benefit from prenatal education courses - and have fun doing it too!
Now as an instructor for Doula Training Canada she travels across Canada teaching others to become Labour Doulas and Childbirth Educators.
Are you ready to Doula and CBE Canada? Join her!
Copyrigtht - Shaunacy King (Glow Maternity), 2016. Please do not print or copy without permission from author.
Do you know how wonderful labour doulas feel after a birth? Knowing they worked hard and their client did IT.
Do you know that same feeling can come from "Mothering the Mother"? A beautiful gift of being a Postpartum Doula. And our world *needs* this help!! Most of us don't have round the clock support. Many times our own parents are not in the same community and our partners return to work after just a few weeks (or less!). And being a new mom is hard. We can all use a little support.
Here is a piece from a then student's postpartum doula report that brought a little tear to my eye because I could feel the joy of that little boy, and the relief of the new mom that she could give that to her boy. (The student doesn't know I'm using it so I hope she forgives me lol! Names have been avoided for confidentiality purposes).
"As a special surprise, she asked if I could stay in with the boys and M. while she met T. at the bus stop which she can’t usually do so she has a walker. It made T.'s day!!!"
Such a small thing, but made a world of difference to this postpartum family. And that's what a postpartum doula does! A lot of little things that add up to a HUGE difference in the world of new (or growing) families.
Do you think this is something you want to do? Does this call to your heart? Contact us today! firstname.lastname@example.org
Many people working in the holistic field struggle with how to value their work or feel somewhat uncomfortable receiving a fair fee for the service that they offer. Most undercharge, are quick to discount and break into a cold sweat when asked what their fee is.
One doula told me "I have absolutely no intention of lowering my fees but it is making it hard to get clients. My last three inquiries opted out after asking about the cost. None of the husbands were on board either which doesn't help. I totally get that it costs money but the amount of money parents spend on 'must have' baby items the first year of life far exceeds what it costs to hire a good doula. Not to mention the amount of money people spend on their wedding day. How is birthing your child not ranking in importance?"
It's true. There is a perception out there that it is okay to spend little to nothing on the birth of your child, and maybe that is true. Some women will have amazing birth experiences without a doula. We know from statistics and experience that doulas improve birth experiences dramatically. Hiring a doula can often times make the difference between a mediocre or even traumatic birth experience and one that is transforming, empowering and amazing regardless of how near or far the actual birth journey strays from the birth plan. We know that as doulas. You will come across people who appreciate that and people who don't.
The problem with the above scenario is that we're calling in the wrong kind of client. You may not be able to easily change the client's perspective but you can change your own.
1. The first thing to do to start calling in clients who can afford you is let go of your need for clients. When you're feeling desperate for work either for financial reasons or because you're just really excited and anxious to be supporting at births, your clients will be few and far between. This is because your vibration is one of lack (lack of clients/lack of money). How do you let it go if you want it so bad? Start by faking it. Pretend you have more than enough money. Pretend you're completely satisfied with having this particular month off from being on call because you can travel a few hours away (plan a drive), because you are happy to sleep with your phone turned off, because you can have a few drinks at the next girl's night. Celebrate the reasons why it's great to be in your particular situation right now. Focus on all that you've got. Write a page of gratitude every day. Focus at least some of your gratitude on the money that is coming in, on the material things that you do have, big or small. When you're happy with what you've got, you'll attract in some more.
2. Let go of this idea that "everyone deserves a doula and most people can't afford me." This is a terrible perspective to be projecting into the world. If you look at a particular person and think, this person could never afford me, you're sending that intention towards them energetically. If you could look at the same person whether she be single, low income etc. and hold her in a place of "she can afford me and I am worth it" you're raising the bar for her energetically. Look at 'poor' people as if they are wealthy just like you might look at sick people as if they are healthy. Your thoughts and intentions are powerful. Who knows what she might have already saved for you and feel very proud of, who knows who might be gifting her your services, who knows what services she has to offer you in exchange. Abundance flows in many ways and from unexpected sources. Besides, if you start calling in as many clients as you wish who can afford you, you'll be in a place where you can give your services occasionally in those real circumstances where it's definitely needed. Don't be afraid to refer clients to student doulas who are in a position where they have to offer their service at a reduced fee too.
3. Give work away. Don't be afraid to share the wealth. Refer your clients to others who offer similar or complimentary services to yours. This very, very quickly changes your vibration to one that is abundant and definitely not needy. It also builds relationships, shows confidence and raises the vibration of the whole holistic community.
4. Raise your price. Yep, that's right. Busy or not, try raising your fee. This has more energetic power than you realize for a lot of the reasons already mentioned above.
5. Don't overtalk the financial part of your agreement. What's my price? My price is this. Bam. Done. Going on and on about bartering, sliding scales, negotiations, etc. makes you sound wishy washy and insecure. You are worth your fee so own it. Focus on building the relationship with your clients, how your support will benefit them and the price should be an afterthought. Because afterall, your support is priceless.
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